Assalam alaikum,
The Messenger of Allah, Sallallahu alaihi Wasallama, was reported to have said:--''Allah has written for the son of Adam (peace be upon him) his inevitable share of adultery whether he is aware of it or not: The adultery of the eye is the looking (at something which is sinful to look at), and the adultery of the tongue is to utter (what is unlawful to utter), and the inner self wishes and longs for (adultery) and the private parts turn that into reality or refrain from submitting to the temptation.'' [Sahih Bukhari]
Immodesty, obscenity and any form of adultery be it of the eyes, ears, tongue or thoughts makes a hole in the heart. Through this hole, imaan (faith) leaks out...no matter how hard you try to fill your heart with imaan, it will constantly flow out, because of this hole....Subhanallah!! While an inappropriate thought may occur to anybody, as Shaytaan is always trying to inspire people with these, yet it is the person who decides whether to entertain such ideas, discussion, temptation or turn away from them.
If you are on a plateau, the more CENTRALLY you stand, the safer you will be. The closer you get to the sides of the plateau, the more dangerous it is that you might fall off the edge. So, to avoid the major form of adultery, we must keep away from its minor forms, ie the adultery of the eyes, tongue, ears and thoughts; and we shall be safe. Avoid movies that glamorize immorality and avoid listening to obscene talks. If an indecent thought occurs to you, simply seek refuge with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala from the accursed Shaytaan and don't entertain such thoughts.
Best Regards.
The Messenger of Allah, Sallallahu alaihi Wasallama, was reported to have said:--''Allah has written for the son of Adam (peace be upon him) his inevitable share of adultery whether he is aware of it or not: The adultery of the eye is the looking (at something which is sinful to look at), and the adultery of the tongue is to utter (what is unlawful to utter), and the inner self wishes and longs for (adultery) and the private parts turn that into reality or refrain from submitting to the temptation.'' [Sahih Bukhari]
Immodesty, obscenity and any form of adultery be it of the eyes, ears, tongue or thoughts makes a hole in the heart. Through this hole, imaan (faith) leaks out...no matter how hard you try to fill your heart with imaan, it will constantly flow out, because of this hole....Subhanallah!! While an inappropriate thought may occur to anybody, as Shaytaan is always trying to inspire people with these, yet it is the person who decides whether to entertain such ideas, discussion, temptation or turn away from them.
If you are on a plateau, the more CENTRALLY you stand, the safer you will be. The closer you get to the sides of the plateau, the more dangerous it is that you might fall off the edge. So, to avoid the major form of adultery, we must keep away from its minor forms, ie the adultery of the eyes, tongue, ears and thoughts; and we shall be safe. Avoid movies that glamorize immorality and avoid listening to obscene talks. If an indecent thought occurs to you, simply seek refuge with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala from the accursed Shaytaan and don't entertain such thoughts.
Best Regards.
