Loving and glorifying the Sunnah

Do you truly love the Messenger of Allaah ? A fundamental of our religion, and a tenet of our faith, is to love him.


Allaah Says what means: “Say [O Muhammad]: ‘If your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives, your relatives, wealth which you have obtained, commerce wherein you fear decline, and dwellings with which you are pleased are more beloved to you than Allaah and His Messenger and Jihaad in His cause, then wait until Allaah executes His command. And Allaah does not guide the defiantly disobedient people.” [Quran 9: 24]




Al-Fudhayl ibn ‘Iyaadh said: “This verse is enough of an evidence to prove the obligation of loving the Prophet because Allaah dispraised in it those whose wealth, family or children are dearer to them than the love of Allaah and His Messenger describing them as defiantly disobedient at its conclusion.”




Love of the Prophet branches from Allaah’s love of him; our love of the Prophet is due to the fact that Allaah loves him, and because Allaah sent him to us as His Messenger, as well as the fact that Allaah instructs us to make him dearer to our hearts than our own souls. He Almighty Says what means: “The Prophet is more worthy of the believers than themselves…” [Quran 33: 6]




This means that the believer should love the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam more than he loves his own self.



This love entails full obedience, submission and acceptance; it also entails favouring the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam over oneself, one’s family and one’s wealth, and to surrender to the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam the controlling direction that one has over himself.




The influence that the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam should have over us is greater than that which a master has over his slave, or a father has over his child. We should have no control over ourselves except in acting in accordance with the way he directed us to.




It is for every Muslim to prove his love for him, which can be determined according to the following narration of the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam: “There are three qualities; whoever has them will taste the sweetness of faith: To love Allaah and His Messenger () more than anyone else…" [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]




One will never taste the sweetness of faith except after achieving this, as he said in another narration: “I swear by the One in whose Hand my soul is! None of you will truly believe until I become dearer to him than his child, his father and all of mankind." [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]




This love is not simply an emotion that is confined to the heart, but rather it has implications and effects. This love makes the slave achieve a rank that he would not otherwise achieve by means of his bodily deeds, as in the narration of Ibn Mas`ood who said: “A man came to the Messenger of Allaah and said: ‘O Messenger of Allaah! When will the Hour (i.e., the Day of Resurrection) come?’ He replied: “What have you prepared for it?” The man said: ‘Only my love of Allaah and His Messenger.’ The Messenger of Allaah then said: “You will be with those whom you love.”” [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]




It is not as important to know when the Hour will occur as it is to prepare for its arrival, and this is the reason why the Prophet drew this to the attention of the man by asking him that question.




Anas said: “After being blessed by embracing Islam, we never rejoiced at anything as much as we did about this answer of the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam to that man. I love Allaah, His Messenger Abu Bakr and ‘Umar and hope to be with them (in the Hereafter) even if I cannot perform the good deeds they did.” [Al-Bukhaari & Muslim]




The Companions had great love for the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, to the extent that they would face arrows that were being fired in his direction to shield him. They would risk their lives for him and sacrifice everything for his rescue. ‘Amr ibn Al-‘Aas said: “There was no one dearer to me or more glorified than the Prophet ; I could never look him directly in the eye due to the extent of my glorification, and if someone were to ask me to describe him, I would not be able to, as I never looked at him for long enough to be able to describe him.” [Muslim]




When Abu Sufyaan was still a disbeliever, he asked Zayd ibn Thaabit who was taken as a hostage and being brought out by the people of Makkah to execute: “Do you not wish that Muhammad was in your place and that we killed him instead, while you could go to your family and be with them?” He replied: “I swear by Allaah! I would rather be here facing this than have him even being pricked by a thorn.” Upon hearing this, Abu Sufyaan said: “I never saw a people who love a man more than the companions of Muhammad love him.” Such incidents greatly affected the disbelievers and caused many of them to embrace Islam.




A man from the Ansaar came to the Prophet and said: “You are dearer to me than myself, my child, my family and my wealth, and I feel as if I am dieing when I do not see you.” Then he began to cry. The Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam asked: “Why are you crying?” The man replied: “I remembered that we will die and you will die, then you will take your place in Paradise with the other Messengers and Prophets, while we, if indeed we do enter Paradise, will be lower in rank than you, and thus we will not be able to see you in Paradise.”




Note how much they loved him; they were worried about not seeing him, despite the fact that they may also be in Paradise.




The Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam did not comment on his words until Allaah revealed the following verses which mean: “And whoever obeys Allaah and the Messenger – those will be with the ones upon whom Allaah has bestowed favour of the prophets, the steadfast affirmers of truth, the martyrs and the righteous. And excellent are those as companions. That is the bounty from Allaah…” [Quran 4: 69-70] Thereupon the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam summoned him and said: “Glad tidings to you!” [Al-Bayhaqi]




Once, a female companion was waiting at the approach to Al-Madeenah for the return of the Muslim army from the battle of Uhud. She was informed that her husband, brother and father were killed, but her only reply was: “What happened to the Prophet?” They told her that he was fine and unharmed, but she insisted to seeing him so that she would be sure that he was truly safe. When she did see him, she remarked: “Any affliction, after seeing that you are safe, is minor.”


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The worst disaster to ever strike this nation was the death of the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, who instructed us to remember the affliction of his death whenever we are trialled by any hardship, so that we may thereby condole ourselves and ease the impact of that hardship, which would be insignificant in comparison.


Signs that prove one’s love for the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam:





1. Mentioning him frequently and exalting his mention. Allaah Says what means: “Indeed, Allaah exalts the mention of the Prophet, and His angels [ask Him to do so]. O you who have believed! Ask [Allaah to] exalt his mention.” [Quran 33: 56]




There are many times and occasions when this is legislated to be done, such as during supplication. Ubay ibn Ka`b reported: “I (once) said: ‘O Messenger of Allaah! I frequently invoke Allaah to exalt your rank; how much of my supplication should I devote to you?' He said: "You may devote as much as you wish.” When I suggested a quarter, he said: "Do whatever you wish, but it would be better for you if you were to increase upon that.'' I suggested half, and he said: "Do whatever you wish, but it would be better for you if you were to increase upon that.” I suggested two-thirds, and he said: “Do whatever you wish, but it would be better for you if you were to increase upon that.” I (finally) said: ‘Shall I devote all of my supplication to invoke Allaah to exalt your rank?’ He said: "You would then be freed from your worries, and your sins would be forgiven.''” [Ahmad & At-Tirmithi]




2. Longing to see him: The Prophet said: “I swear by the One in whose Hand the soul of Muhammad is! A day will come when not one of you will be able to see me (i.e., after my death) and seeing me then would be dearer to a person’s heart than his family and wealth.” [Ahmad & At-Tirmithi]




Losing ones family and wealth is a minor issue in comparison to the great bounty of being a companion, whose sins are forgiven, of the Prophet .




3. Being sincere to the Prophet : Imaam Al-Maroozi said: “This was done during his lifetime by exerting all efforts to obey him, supporting him, helping him, sacrificing one’s wealth for his sake if he were to demand it, and hastening to attain his love. After his death, it is expressed by learning his Sunnah, his manners and etiquettes, glorifying his commands and adhering to them, becoming angry at those who live according to anything other than his way, and loving those who adhere to it, as well as loving those who are from his descendents, those who migrated with him and those who supported him, and indeed anyone who was in his company even for as brief a period as an hour.




Additionally, it entails imitating him in the way he dressed.” Imaam Al-Qurtubi added: “It is to believe in his prophethood, to love those who supported him, to hate those who hate him, to glorify his Sunnah and revive, defend and spread it, as well as calling people to it and imitating him in his morals and conduct.”




4. Loving those whom he loved: If he loved Al-Hasan, Al-Husayn, ‘Ali and Faatimah then we also love them, and Allaah is our witness to this love. Likewise, we love those who follow his Sunnah and his household, and they are, as Zayd said when clarifying the narration of the Prophet : “My household; I remind you to fear Allaah with regards to my household; I remind you to fear Allaah with regards to my household; I remind you to fear Allaah with regards to my household.” Zayd was asked: “Who are his household? Are his wives included in it?” He replied: “Yes (i.e., his wives are included), as are all those who are forbidden from taking Zakaah after his death, namely: the family of ‘Ali, the family of ‘Aqeel, the family of Ja’far and the family of Al-‘Abbaas.” [Muslim]




We pray for all of them during our daily prayers; thus if somebody’s lineage is known to originate from the Prophet and they are a pious person with sound creed, and not a Soofee, a deviant or an innovator, then they should be loved for two reasons: One being their piety and the other being their relationship to the Prophet .




Loving his wives is also part of this, as Allaah Says what means: “The Prophet is more worthy of the believers than themselves, and his wives are [in the position of] their mothers...” [Quran 33: 6]




His wives were: Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid, ‘Aa’ishah bint Abu Bakr, Hafsah bint ‘Umar, Umm Habeebah bint Abu Sufyaan, Umm Salamah, Zaynab bint Jahsh, Zaynab bint Khuzaymah Al-Hilaaliyyah, Juwayriyyah bint Al-Haarith, Safiyyah bint Huyay and Maymoonah bint Al-Haarith Al-Hilaaliyyah all.




A sign of loving the Prophet is to love his wives, who are the mothers of the believers, and not to harm or slander them in any way.




Loving his companions accepting the guidance they conveyed to us, and emulating them.




Many are those who claim to love the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, even from amongst the innovators, but the ‘proof’ of their love for him is that they worship him alongside Allaah, and supplicate to him instead of Allaah, and seek forgiveness from him; these people exclude and forget Allaah. Is this love, or is it association with Allaah, which he hated more than anything else? He alluded to this when he said: “Do not praise me as the Christians praised the son of Maryam.” [Al-Bukhaari]




By this statement, he did not forbid all types of praise for him, but rather only the type that the Christians did (and do) for Jesus (‘Eesaa ), which is where they raise his rank to one above that which Allaah granted him, which is that of a slave and a messenger, and they worship him instead of Allaah. This is similar to what the deviant Soofees and other sects did and do.




On the other hand, Ahlus-Sunnah Wal-Jamaa’ah prove their love for the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam by obeying his commands, following his Sunnah and adhering to his guidance; this is how one follows his way, as Allaah Says what means: “Say [O Muhammad]: If you should love Allaah, then follow me, [so] Allaah will love you and forgive you your sins…” [Quran 3: 31] This is real love!



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Abdullaah ibn Mas`ood reported that the Messenger of Allaah said: "Never has a Prophet been sent before me by Allaah to his people except that he had, among his people, disciples and companions who followed his way and obeyed his command. Then there came after them their successors who proclaimed what they did not practice, and practiced what they were not commanded to do. (He) who strove against these (people) with his hand was a believer; he who strove against them with his heart was a believer; and he who strove against them with his tongue was a believer; and beyond that there is no grain of faith." [Muslim]


The Companions comprehended this very well and also kept in mind the saying of the Prophet which was reported by Anas : "He who shuns my Sunnah is not from me.” [Al-Bukhaari] These sayings made them love the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam and spread and propagate it amongst their successors.




The Companions fulfilled their duty and played their expected role in spreading and propagating the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam; they taught it to others with sincerity and advised those who shunned it to adhere to it, warning them against their actions. Huthayfah once saw a man rushing during his prayer and failing to be tranquil in his bowings and prostrations; so he said to him: “You did not pray! Had you died in that state then you would have died upon other than the way of Muhammad .” [Al-Bukhaari] He was bringing his attention to the fact that being tranquil and submissive during prayers was how the Prophet would perform them.




‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar would sit on his buttocks during the Tashahhud in his prayer, so his son began imitating him; when ‘Abdullaah saw this, he forbade him from doing so and informed him that this was not how the Prophet performed his prayers, so his son said to him: “I saw you praying this way.” His father informed him that his legs were injured from the time of the Battle of Khaybar, and that he could not therefore adhere to the Sunnah in this position of prayer. [Al-Bukhaari]



‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar did not consider this part of prayer a minor or trivial issue which he could overlook when seeing someone performing it a way other than that of the Prophet's ; compare this to the way some people consider certain acts of the Sunnah to be minor, thereby undermining them.




Taawoos said: “We asked Ibn ‘Abbaas about sitting in the position of Iq’aa’ between the two prostrations (which is to sit with one’s buttocks on his heels while bending his toes and directing them towards the Qiblah). He informed them that it was the Sunnah, but they remarked: `We do not see it befitting a man to sit in such a manner.` But he repeated and emphasised to them the fact that the Prophet would sit this way.” [Muslim]



This is one of the ways he would sit, while the other and most common practice of his was that he would sit on his left foot and have his right foot raised while having its toes pointing towards the direction of the Qiblah.




These were some examples of how the Companions would propagate the Sunnah of the Prophet and they would also openly forbid those who contradicted the Sunnah, as in the story when Marwaan ibn ‘Abdul-Malik delivered the Khutbah of ‘Eed before the prayer, which is directly contrary to the Sunnah, so a man stood up whilst he was delivering the Khutbah and told him that he had opposed the way of the Prophet by doing what he did. Marwaan paid no attention to what the man said, and so Abu Sa’eed said: “This man (i.e., the one who spoke to Marwaan) has fulfilled his duty by informing him of the Sunnah and attempting to forbid him from continuing; I heard the Prophet say: “He who sees an evil must change it with his hands (i.e. physically); if he is unable to, then he must change it with his tongue (i.e. verbally), and if he is unable to, then with his heart (i.e., hating it) - and this is the weakest level of faith.” [At-Tirmithi]




Acts of worship were not the only thing which the Companions learned the ways of the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam - he even taught them their manners. Anas said: “Once the Prophet came to our house and asked for something to drink, so we milked a sheep for him and I gave him the milk to drink while Abu Bakr, ‘Umar and other senior companions were sitting to his left, and a Bedouin was sitting to his right. When he finished drinking, ‘Umar said: `O Messenger of Allaah! Abu Bakr is to your left` in an attempt to bring that to his attention, but he turned to the Bedouin and handed him the container to drink from, saying: “It is the right of those to your right, It is the right of those to your right, It is the right of those to your right.” [Muslim]




All the Companions old and young, were keen to adhere to the Sunnah of the Prophet ; it was never reported from a single one of them that they said about any part of it: “This is only a Sunnah and is not mandatory… this is only recommended and not obligatory… this is a minor issue and not a major one, and we should not waste our time in it… this is a trivial matter” quite unlike what many people say nowadays about the Sunnah, thereby giving it a low ranking in their list of importance. Instead, the Companions would apply anything that came to them from the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam and would practice it fully and very precisely. Even in matters that were related to man’s natural disposition, such as growing the beard, using the Siwaak (a special twig that is used as a toothbrush) and so on.




Is it not time for us to apply the Sunnah in our practices and actions, our families, the way we dress, our children, our homes, our prayers and all other affairs?



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The Idea is, to put in our hearts, the Holy Prophet Mohammad's (SAWS) morals & habits so that we may love him more & more & be motivated to follow his habits & Sunnah ( or traditions & life-example).

1.Quran( 68:4 ) "And Lo ! you are of tremendous nature".

2.Quran( 9:128 ) "There has come to you a messenger, (one) of yourselves, unto whom aught that you are overburdened is grievous, full of concern for you, for the believers full of pity, merciful".

3.Quran ( 33:53 ) "....Lo ! that would cause annoyance to the Prophet, & he would be shy of (asking) you (to go); but Allah is not shy of the truth".

The shyness was in personal matters but not in the preaching of Allah's orders.

4.Hadith: (According to Anas): "I served the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) (and his family) for ten years. (During these 10 years) he (was never cross and) never said even oh ! and never asked as to why I did this or didn't do that (Bukhari & Muslim). Look at the tolerance, kindness, compassion & forgiveness.

5.Hadith: In another tradition, Anas reported walking with the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) who was then wearing an outer garment made in Najran. He met a villager ( or "Badawi") who held his outer garment and pulled him very close and then said: "O Mohammad ! Give me from what Allah has given you for this property". The Holy Prophet looked at him, smiled and issued an order for him. (Bukhari & Muslim).

6.Hadith: (According to Anas): "The Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) was the best behaved & mannered of all. One day he sent me somewhere with some business. Anas said, "I won't go" but did intend to go there. (This is because he was only a child). I came to the market (on my way) and passed thought some playing children. Suddenly, the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) appeared from behind me and help me by the neck. I looked behind and he was smiling. He said, "You are going where I told you to go". I said, "Yes O Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) ! I'm going".

7.Hadith: (According to Jabir) : "The Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) never refused a request. If he had it, he gave it. If he did not have it then he expressed his apology & promised to give in the future. (Bukhari & Muslim).

8.Hadith: (According to Anas): A man asked for goats from the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) (that were his) and were there between two mountains. He gave him all of them. The man came to his people and asked them to become Muslim. He said, "By God. Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) gives his people a lot & is not bothered by giving away all or everything. (Muslim).

9.Hadith: (According to Jubair bin M'atam): He was with the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) when the latter was returning from Hunain. The villagers held him and kept on begging. They pushed him to a (thorny) tree and pulled away his (outer) garment. He stood there saying, "Give back my garment. If I now had as many camels as these trees, I would have distributed all of them among you. You won't find me miser, liar or little at heart". (Bukhari)

10.Hadith: (According to Anas): "After the morning (or Fajr) prayer the slaves or servants of the people of Madinah (or medina) used to present their containers of water for the Prophet Mohammad's (SAWS) blessing. Even in a cold morning, he used to touch the water. (Muslim)

11.Hadith: (According to Anas): The Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) never lost temper nor sweared. If he didn't like something, he would say, "What is the matter with him ? Let there be dust on his forehead" which is of no harm. If this meant "sajdah" or prostration in the prayer then it is a prayer for becoming a praying man and prayer presents from evil and wicked things. So this is a prayer for reform.

12.Hadith: (According to Abu Saeed Khudri): The Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) was more shy & modest man than a virgin lady. If he did not like something ( he may not say so ) but he could see the effect of disliking on his face. (Bukhari & Muslim).

13.Hadith: (According to Aswad): was asked lady, Aaishah about the activities of the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) at home. She told him that he was occupied with them in the household work. (Bukhari).

14.Hadith: (According to Lady Aaishah): "The Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) used to tie knots & repair his shoes, sow his clothes, and do all such household works just like an average person among you does". And he said, "he was one of the human beings (who did not live like a boss or lord at home). He would check for lice on his clothes (that they may not have come from someone else). He would milk the goat, do other household works as well as his personal work". (Trimizi)

15.Hadith: (According to Lady Aaishah): The Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) never beat (or battered) anyone, neither a women nor a servant. But the Holy war of defense was an exception. He never took revenge and always forgave those who caused him trouble or harm. But when an Islamic law was broken (or "Haram" was committed) then he would do justice and give punishment according to law (or Shari'ah) (Muslim).

16.Hadith: (According to Anas): I was eight years of age when I became the Holy Prophet Mohammad's (SAWS) servant and served him for 10 years. He never rebuked me even when I broke or damaged something. If his family said something strong, then he would tell them leave it & to forget about it. Whatever Allah has destined will happen".

17.Hadith: (According to Anas): I know the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) used to console & comfort the sick, & accompany the funeral procession. (Ibne Majah & Behiqi)

18.Hadith: (According to Anas): Whenever the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) shook hands with someone he would not pull out his hands until the other person did so. And he would not remove his attention from a person unless he did so (first). When he sat in a row, he did not put his legs beyond others. And he was not seen extending his legs in front of anyone. (Trimizi)

19.Hadith: (According to Companion Ali, as narrated by his son Imam Hussain): When the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) retired to his home, he would divide his stay there in three parts: one for worshipping Allah, one for his family, and one for himself. The last part he used to spend with his special companions (or Sahabah) so that the general public could benefit through them. Here, He favored with his company the (more) knowledgeable & their pious and spent his time with them according to their religious ranks & needs (that could be one or two or more). He spent his time with them & kept them occupied in such things as were good for them & the Muslim community, for example enquiring (and learning) the Islamic law or giving suitable & pertinent information. Everybody went there to learn & come out with food & guidance. This was the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) special "majlis" or audience at his residence (Shamaile Trimizi). Hussain then asked his father concerning the Prophet Mohammad's (SAWS) behaviors (when outside the home) among his companions. Hazarat Ali (RA) told, The Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) was always polite, kind & merciful. People did not quarrel among themselves before him. When somebody talked to him, he would listen quietly until completion. He exercised patience when a rude or bad-mannered strange asked or said something. He did not stop a conversation so long as it did not exceed the limits (of Shari'ah). Otherwise, he would change the topic or stop him or leave the scene. This was the Prophet Mohammad's (SAWS) general "majlis" or audience with his friends (Shamaile Tirmizi).

20.Hadith: (According to Abu Hurairah): Once the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) was asked to curse the polytheists. He replied, "I'm not sent to curse buy only as a merciful (to all nations)" (Muslim). He prayed even for his enemies. Seeking Allah's protection against one's enemies is a different matter & is also a prayer.

21.Hadith: (According to Lady 'Aaishah): In the story of Taif, the Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) suffered more than in the battle of U'had from his enemies, the polytheists. The arch angel Gabriel came with the angel in charge of the mountains who saluted the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) and said "O Mohammad ! I'm the angle of the mountains. Allah has sent me to obey your orders. If you wish, I can bring the two mountains together & cause them to die in between". But the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) said, "No ! I'm hoping that Allah may produce from their progeny (Muslims) who work ship Allah alone & who do not make partners with Allah". The Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) was right & all the people of Tai (and Arabia) are Muslims now, thanks to Almighty God & His compassionate Prophet.

22.Hadith: (According to Ali): In a long story, there is mention of Jew in Medina who had loaned some money to Holy Prophet Mohammad (SAWS). Once the Jew harassed & did not let the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) go home from the mosque for "Zuhar" or after-noon prayer till next day. The people were angry but the Prophet Mohammad (SAWS) forbade any transgression. The next day, the Jew declared his Islam & recited the Holy Kalimah (of shahadat) & admitted that he was only testing him & found him exactly as was foretold in the Torah (Old Testament of Bible). (Behiqi & Mishkat)